just sent an email to my supervisor. praying now cause it felt pages long and super harsh. but it was time because she asked me to do it and i would forget if i waited, and it would be worse then...and it's subtle and deep stuff. it wasn't worded harsh so much as it was page of completely one-sided observations and she might beat up on herself over it, stress out, then come to us crying about how she tried everything to help us and now we think this of her, etc. but this was after a long talk between her and i and a couple teammates, and one of my teammates crying and my supervisor asked how she had pressured us, so i had to think about it. and it's too late so i'm not even totally sure what i wrote. but it was literally a page long and all one-side perspective, i said so in the beginning of the email...